When You Should Look Into a Nursing Home

     It can be a shock to see your loved one’s health decline so fast that you realize they need help. Sometimes catastrophic fall or memory lapses give you doubts about letting them live in the way they do. Here are some signs to watch out for in your older loved one:

• They Have Become Depressed or Aggressive – If your loved one becomes more isolated from friends and family, they can become more and more depressed and lose motivation. They could also become violent or aggressive if suffering from dementia. These issues require professional help. 
• Inability To Get Around – Seniors can become frustrated when they can no longer move around, but the real trouble comes when they can no longer stand or walk. This makes living alone or even with part-time care dangerous or difficult for seniors. 
• Self-Care is Lacking – Not bathing regularly, losing weight, and not paying bills can signify your parents have become unable to take care of themselves properly. This may be the time to check on them more often or look at other living arrangements. 
• Caregivers Are Stressed Out – Your loved one might be doing fine, but you may have reached a limit on the care you can provide. In this case, it could be time to find an assisted living home. 
• Showing Signs of Sun-Downing– Early signs of dementia and Alzheimer’s include the tendency for old people to become more agitated and confused later in the day. Make sure to visit your loved ones at various times during the day. These indications could mean that they need more assistance in the future. 

     Your loved one’s health is the most important factor when making these decisions. Many caregivers and children feel guilty about moving their parents in a nursing home, but it’s often the best option. It’s necessary for the health and well-being of your parents. 

Don’t Wait For an Emergency

     Quality nursing homes can have waitlists up to 6 months long. That doesn’t mean you won’t be able to find a nursing home, but it may not be your first choice for your loved one. Getting on the waitlist when you see the first signs is the right move, but it can be hard to get the timing right. You should have discussions with your loved one about the various options you can take that are difficult but vital. 

     The best way to protect yourself and your family is to consult your local elder law attorney. They will make sure that you have the best plan for your future.  They can also discuss how to fund your loved one’s nursing home stay without them or you going broke.